Coulda/woulda/shoulda is my stepmother's way of defining dithering. Put in perspective, it is a useful tool. Considering all the angles, researching, making notes, better yet, making lists, all the sign of intelligent, insightful thinking. I am all for celebrating accomplishments and learning experiences, but the habit of rushing in to get it done then dealing with unwelcome results is just as bad as dithering a decision to death.